From the 4 Quadrants to the 8 Horizons of Love

Human relationships are some of the most complex phenomena in the known universe. This complexity can quickly lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and emotional distress, often making the process of problem-solving and returning to love difficult for one or both partners. In this episode of Witt and Wisdom, Corey deVos introduces a comprehensive relationships framework he is currently developing, designed to help partners navigate the staggering complexity of our relationships — whether romantic, familial, or platonic. Corey highlights the eight fundamental territories or horizons within which all relationships unfold, detailing the common factors, everyday examples, key questions, common challenges, and the risks of neglecting each of these horizons. These 8 Horizons can be described as: Horizon 1: Awareness Horizon 2: Unconscious Horizon 3: Connection Horizon 4: Dynamics Horizon 5: Embodiment Horizon 6: Behavior Horizon 7: Container Horizon 8: Conditions &q